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Counting our Blessings 10

Phutthassa loka dhammehi
Cittam yassa na kampati
Asokam virajam khemam
Etam mangala muttamam

(Pali Verse of the Mangala Sutta)

A mind unruffled by the vagaries of fortune, from sorrow freed, from defilements cleansed, from fear liberated — this is the greatest blessing.

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This verse speaks about one of the highest forms of happiness: a stable and peaceful mind that is not constantly shaken by the changing conditions of life.

The Constant Fluctuations of Life

The phrase “vagaries of fortune” refers to the changing experiences we all encounter in daily life. In Buddhism, these are often called the “eight worldly winds”:

  • Gain and loss
  • Honor and dishonor
  • Praise and blame
  • Pleasure and pain

No one can escape these experiences. They are part of human existence.

Sometimes life goes smoothly. We receive praise, success, comfort, and affection. At other times, difficulties arise unexpectedly. We lose opportunities, face criticism, encounter sickness, or experience disappointment.

Even our physical body constantly changes. Youth becomes old age. Health becomes illness. Energy becomes fatigue. No matter how carefully we care for the body, it remains subject to change.

Likewise, we do not live alone in isolation. Even a person stranded alone on an island would still experience changing weather, hunger, heat, cold, and danger. As people living in society, the fluctuations become even more complicated.

One moment we may be loved and appreciated. The next moment, someone becomes upset with us because of a misunderstanding or a careless remark we did not even realize was offensive. Relationships, reputation, wealth, and circumstances can all shift suddenly.

Because of this uncertainty, fear and anxiety naturally arise in the mind.

We fear losing pleasant experiences. We fear encountering unpleasant situations. We worry about sickness, failure, rejection, financial struggles, aging, and death.

The Turbulent Mind

When circumstances change, emotional reactions often arise automatically.

Sometimes sorrow appears. Sometimes anger, disappointment, jealousy, fear, craving, or frustration surfaces in the mind. These emotional states can feel overwhelming and difficult to control. For some people, the changes are extreme. One moment they appear cheerful and relaxed, and the next moment they become anxious or troubled for no obvious reason.

The Buddha understood this deeply. He did not teach that life would always become pleasant or that external conditions could be fully controlled. Instead, he taught something more realistic and more profound: the training of the mind.

The blessing described in the Mangala Sutta is not the blessing of endless wealth, constant praise, or a life free from difficulties. Rather, it is the blessing of possessing a mind that remains steady amidst life’s changes.

A Mind Free From Fear and Defilements

The verse speaks about a mind:

  • Unshaken by changing fortune
  • Freed from sorrow
  • Cleansed of defilements
  • Liberated from fear

Defilements refer to mental impurities such as greed, hatred, aversion, craving, jealousy, and ignorance. These are the inner forces that disturb the mind and cause suffering.

When the mind is filled with craving, we become distressed whenever things do not go our way. When filled with aversion, we react with anger and bitterness. When filled with ignorance, we misunderstand the nature of life and cling to what cannot last.

But through Dhamma practice, the mind can gradually be trained.

With mindfulness, wisdom, generosity, morality, and meditation, we slowly become less reactive. Troubling thoughts still arise, but they no longer overpower us so easily. Instead of reacting impulsively, we learn to respond carefully and wisely.

This does not mean becoming cold, emotionless, or indifferent. Rather, it means developing inner stability.

The Blessing of Equanimity

A mind that remains balanced amidst gain and loss, praise and blame, pleasure and pain is known in Buddhism as equanimity (upekkhā).

Equanimity is one of the Four Divine Abodes (Brahmavihāras), together with loving-kindness, compassion, and sympathetic joy.

A person with equanimity understands that all conditioned experiences are unstable and changing. Because of this understanding, they do not become excessively inflated by success nor crushed by failure.

If praise comes, they remain grounded.
If criticism comes, they reflect calmly.
If difficulties arise, they endure patiently.
If happiness appears, they appreciate it without clinging desperately.

Such a person may not possess a perfect life externally. They may still face illness, financial hardship, misunderstandings, or personal losses. But because the mind is trained, challenges no longer become overwhelming burdens.

This is why the Buddha described such mental stability as one of the greatest blessings.

Counting Our Blessings Differently

In the world, people often count blessings in terms of wealth, status, beauty, success, or comfort. While these things can bring temporary happiness, they are uncertain and fragile. They can disappear at any time.

The Buddha encouraged us to count blessings differently.

A person who possesses patience during hardship is blessed.
A person who remains kind despite difficulties is blessed.
A person who can endure criticism without hatred is blessed.
A person who maintains clarity and calmness amidst uncertainty is deeply blessed.

The greatest blessing is not a life where nothing unpleasant ever happens. Such a life does not exist.

The greatest blessing is a mind that remains steady even when life changes.

For when the mind is well-trained, fear loses its power, sorrow becomes lighter, and the storms of life no longer shake us so easily.

May all beings be well and happy.

Mangala Sutta

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